The label “wife material” is secretly derogatory.
It means Docile. Un-questioning of authority.
One that can take all levels of bulshit from him.
This weekend, stay home, mami. Read a book. Then come back out. Challenge (his) society.
Cha(lle)nge what norms are.
Enough of sitting pretty; seeking his validation.
Enough of requesting for his respect.
Deserve it.
Earn it.
Grab it even !
“I am not afraid to tell you, ‘I love you”.
Your mind may say, ‘How can you love me when you don’t even know me?’
I don’t need to know you.
I don’t need to justify my love.
I love you because this is my pleasure.
Love coming out of me makes me happy, and it’s not important if you reject me because I don’t reject myself.
In my story, I live in an on-going romance, and everything is beautiful for me.
To live in love is to be alive again.
When you recover your integrity, you always follow love.
You live your life as an eternal romance because when you love yourself, it is easy to love everyone else”.
Brucey 