I was part of a conversation sometime beginning of the year, some thoughts were raised by.. (source: Hidden for safety concerns), things that have been on my mind for a while. I guess he framed it perfectly, and kinda gave it a “book title” in my world.
1. Nothing gets you a pretty woman, like a pretty woman.
Walk into a spot with a good looking lady.. Versus .. walk into this same place with a not- so- pretty one.
Precisely. This phenomenon has been explained tens of varied ways. My way? When I was a child, and food was served onto plates, for some reason the food on another’s plate seemed awfully better than that on mine.
2. Fewer things seem to be more attractive to a woman than a man who carries the (silent) threat that he can have anyone he wants.
Stinker, this one. It is what it is though. One thing is for sure, it brings forth a very conflicted fellow. How is one to reconcile this reality with how he has been raised to be, versus how he wants to treat a lady who has won his heart over?
The irony that is the two things women say they want in a man are the two things that most easily repel them.
Faithful vs Unfaithful
Exclusive vs Non exclusive
Flipped on its head, these two things women claim to abhor about men, are what draw them in.
Well, at least at the beginning of things. So that’s the weird part. What has “got” you that girl, ends up being a fighting point, and quite often, a breaking point.
And yet, without 1 and 2, you end up losing this girl to someone with 1 and 2.. or at the very least, has her mind wandering towards he.
Domino irony effect (/ Conclusion?) here being: If I am looking to settle down with this lady, am I to act like hell as if I am nowhere near there?
Brucey 